Getting it right in life, what does that really mean? For me, life can be as simple and pure by just being happy and grateful. I watch others complicate their lives by thinking they have to have “itâ€? What is “it†anyway?  I must be experiencing a coming of age at this point in... Continue Reading →
Expect the Unexpected, and Off She Went Into the Future
As many of you know, so much has taken place in my life the past year. Love, joy, happiness, peace, to death, grief, trauma, followed by counseling which lead to understanding, forgiveness, letting go, and on to healing. Everything else seemed to crop up in-between. Life is that journey and mine has been quite a... Continue Reading →
This Tiny House is Becoming a Home By Letting Go of Things
Ah, the joy of unpacking! No, really, I am having a delightful time unpacking, savoring memories as I open boxes of my treasures, my books, my kitchen tools. Treasure troves of silly knick knacks I have saved over the years are now going to the Do Not Need box. Two of my favorite chairs just... Continue Reading →
It’s Better to Be Kind Than to Be Right
As of late, I am almost mesmerized by the quality of life lessons that have crossed my path since Paul died. With the sage advice of “sleep on itâ€, I have saved myself on more than one occasion. Reactions are rarely the best route when emotions are involved. I have learned there are things in... Continue Reading →
Say It, I Dare You
Don’t you just wish that a time or two in your lifetime you could answer back how you really feel? You know, say it with thought so that the other person doesn’t get it until later that day? This applies to those people in your life that just do not understand no matter what. This... Continue Reading →
Sleep on It
I have learned a great deal about myself through life lessons, and some of those lessons were very difficult. For one thing, I will not allow negativity to open a door and think it can just walk in and stay. I simply do not have time for such nonsense. I will not give specifics for... Continue Reading →
My Best Friend is Sort of My Dog
Clarification: My sister, Marianne, is really my bestest bestie. And, I have a number of very good friends I can count on and always call any time and that have the "best" role. However, my dog Zeke is really my best bud and every day companion. I must tell you that I have learned a... Continue Reading →
Dear Paul,
Today, Sunday, is the first day since you have been gone that I took nap midday, read a book, and had no plans whatsoever. I wish I could say I am bored but that is not the case at all! First of all, my fundraising event for Expedition Inspiration is behind me now. We put... Continue Reading →
Miracles Really Do Happen
Last week was one of those I-cannot-believe-it weeks. I had a lesson to learn, and it was humbling, to say the least. I had a mega cry on Friday night a week ago, and I have no idea what set it off. It doesn’t really matter because in grief you are okay one minute and... Continue Reading →
Stains on Clothes are Memories
How does it happen anyway? Every single time I wear a light color, I inevitably spill something, That something is usually salsa, coffee or salad dressing, the three major sources of stains on my clothes. I used to get a bit irritated when this happened. Rats! Another blouse or shirt ruined! Until one fine day,... Continue Reading →